Be A Star In Your Own Life

Do you have the charactertics to be star in your own life? What characteristics below do you have or don't have already? Give each item a rating from 1 to 10 with 10 being you have these charactertics 100%. 1. Believe anything is possible. The universe is your oasis, see everything as vast within a reachable horizon. Keep raising your ceiling every day. Believe in yourself and others will believe in you. Everything is a mirror and others can only be a reflection back of that mirror. When you think it will work, then it will work. Who do you want people to see when they look into your mirror? 2. Know your talents and focus on them in order to be star. Talent is not ability or skill. Talent are your gifts from God. Look up the words talent, ability, and skill in a dictionary and learn the difference. You need to name it in order to claim it. To find your talent, find the consistent patterns that have yearned throughout your life, the things you have always gravitated to. Define yourself in terms of potential value you bring to the world. Ask, "What gives me a burning sense of fulfillment?" 3. Just like a star in the sky, gas and dust built that star and made it shine. The star chooses only the right gas, the right dust to bring into its building process. There are tons of choices (gas) and elements (dust) that are swirling all around you. Use only the specific types that will help you form your star. 4. Be selfish when it comes to fueling your talents and your dreams. Do things that please you. Have daily call to actions that make you tingle and smile. 5. The smallest participles deliver big results. Big things emerge from the smallest actions. Focus on the little things whenever the big things aren't apparent. 6. Trust and use your instincts fully. Use heavy discernment regarding comments from others. Never under estimate your competition. 7. Burning rage is the difference in saying you want something and continually acting as if you do. You succeed only to the level of your hottest burning rage. Anger is not burning rage. Rage provides a sense of fulfillment when accomplished, it makes you happy and smile. Rage is one click past passion and desire. Rage has no fear and failure isn't an option. Rage propels you out of your comfort zone. Rage is a level of continual commitment that makes a superstar. Rage keeps you alert, highly aware. It keeps you looking for a new path, especially one that isn't blocked. Rage attracts like-minded positive people. It should propel you into action. 8. Make and bake ?our own breaks. Be ready for the audition at any moment. Be the President of your own fan club. Who is drawn to you -- who are your biggest fans and why? Be the last one standing. Be a great pitcher. Work smart and hard, be prepared, and be available. 9. Be comfortable with change. Choose to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. It s hard to stand out when you're fitting in. 10. Turn any disadvantage in an advantage. Setbacks are only setups for something else.

Be a Loser: 50 Reasons to Get Weight Loss Surgery

Weight loss surgery is fast becoming a very popular way for obese and morbidly obese people to get and keep the weight off. America is the fattest it's ever been and they're even saying there is an "obesity epidemic". The term is even being used in the UK now. I even had gastric by pass surgery 2 years ago and it has changed my life only for the better. You can see my before and after photos at http://www.allymoll.com/wls.html There are many reasons for people to consider getting weight loss surgery. For those of you who are still unsure, here are fifty ways your life will change for the better after surgery. If you're still unsure, feel free to contact me for a free consultation. 1. You lose weight FAST! 2. You get to buy a whole new wardrobe....several times if you wish. 3. You will be able to see and touch your own feet. 4. You'll feel lighter. 5. It will be easier for you to exercise 6. You can go up a flight or two of stairs without completely running out of breath. 7. Your self-esteem will sky rocket. 8. People will hold doors open for you, look at you and actually say hi and smile. 9. You will get hit on! 10. You will be able to achieve all those positions you've always wanted to try during sex. 11. You'll clothes will start falling off of you. 12. You can buy jewelry in a "normal" store. 13. Your joint pain will lessen or disappear. 14. There is a possibility your diabetes will go away. 15. You'll just feel GOOD. 16. You'll get complimented a lot. 17. Your snoring will lessen or disappear. 18. You can comfortably wear jeans. 19. No more high blood pressure. 20. No more asking for a seatbelt extender on the airplane. 21. Your butt won't hurt as much after riding a bike. 22. You will feel very proud of yourself. 23. You'll see inches of fat melt right off of you. 24. Your energy will increase. 25. You'll be able to cross your legs. 26. You will finally weigh LESS then what it says on your driver's license. 27. You can finally buy that cute little sports car and now worry if you'll fit behind the steering wheel. 28. You'll actually be able to use those tiny bathrooms on airplanes and trains. 29. You can sell all your fat clothes on ebay and make some extra money. 30. You can do more housework! (Ok, this may not be a "pro" for everyone) 31. You'll literally lose weight overnight. 32. You'll live longer. 33. You'll be healthier. 35. You won't run away or throw your hands up every time?someone wants to take your picture. 36. You'll start using the regular carts at the grocery store instead of the electric handicap ones. 37. You can get a short haircut without looking like a pinhead. 38. You won't feel hungry all the time. 39. You'll feel pretty/handsome again. 40. Your shoe size will drop. 41. You'll be able to ride all the roller coasters and never have to do the "walk of shame" when you discovered you couldn't fit into the seats anymore. 42. No more heartburn. 43. You can go to the gym and finally be one of those skinny perky people you use to envy. 44. No more starving yourself on crazy diets. 45. No more worrying if the chair you're sitting on will break. 46. You can go to the playground and swing on the swing set. 47. Your kids will be able to put their arms all the way around you when they hug you. 48. You'll save money by not eating as much and not going out to eat as often. 49. Learning how much certain people really care about you. 50. And lastly you will most likely meet a ton of wonderful weight loss surgery people who will become your good friends for life. About the Author Ally Moll is a life and creativity coach in South Central Wisconsin. She helps clients all over the country to choose or not choose to lose weight through weight loss surgery. She also assists people in getting in touch with their creatvity and creating careers they will really love.

Building A Career Of Choice

Let's face it, most career choices are not choices at all, but people held hostage by paychecks. Most of us fall into a job; followed by a paycheck, and then become immobilized into taking any pro-active moves toward something we really love doing. How much sense does this make? We don't marry on these terms. We don't select friends on these terms. But we do spend eight, ten, twelve hours a day in work we have no passion for and a future we aren't particularly interested in cultivating. Perhaps now is the time to change all that. It doesn't matter whether you are looking for employment or self-employment the guidelines for locating your career purpose are the same. It takes a bit of courage and self-evaluation, all of which can be difficult but will also free you to find your true career of choice. Passion and Practicality To be an adult you must be practical. That is what we are taught. To be practical we must do what makes sense to those around us, rather than what feels right within us. Trouble is, that might make some of those around us happy, but it makes us miserable. And that is not practical. Passion is that burst of internal thrill that propels you effortlessly toward the work of realization. Passion is coupled with belief, hope, and faith; and can do more than move mountains; it can give your life purpose. So set aside the practicality of those around you and begin looking at what really makes your own clock tick. Make a list of those things that you do in your off hours that make you smile. Look into your heart at the yearnings that have gone unmet. For all those activities is a means for creating a career. Consider this, if all of us in the wrong jobs played musical chairs, we might all find ourselves in the right jobs. The accountant who hates numbers but loves helping people with their problems switches careers with the therapist who falls asleep during his sessions but loves to balance his checkbook. What if we were all doing what we were passionate about? Would our courageous move toward passion make a better world? That seems pretty practical. Talent And Experience Our talents are most often coupled with our passion simply because we rarely improve on areas that we have no interest. Experience does not have to be quantified in the number of paid hours. That is the hostage paycheck mentality. Life is more balanced than your checkbook, so depend on it to understand your real experience in the areas you want to pursue as a career. In other words align your talents with your life experience. Do you volunteer at a homeless shelter? Do you belong to the society of Antique Collecting? Have you achieved weight loss and now want to teach others? These are life experiences that may not be quantified by pay, but are worth their weight in gold. People Power The primary power for moving toward your career of choice lies in locating others who will support you in making this goal a reality. Networking is absolutely vital to progress. Join professional organizations within your interest. Locate headhunters and recruiters that can put you in the right place at the right time. Surround yourself with powerful individuals that will pave the way and before you know it, you will be working in your career of choice.